Does this sound familiar?
You buy some amazing art supplies and set up a table in your garage to have space to paint. And you plan on having a whole afternoon on the weekend to get started on your new canvas.
But it feels like life is against you because everything that could go wrong does go wrong. It’s like you sent a memo to the Universe saying, Please interrupt my whole weekend so that I’ll never have a few hours to myself.
Or maybe…
You get up at 5:30 to do your morning pages in your art journal. And you immediately feel glorious about having the willpower to make this happen. Yay!
But it turns out that was the easy part. Because your plans to get to bed earlier are a complete flop. Your wind-down routine is more like a wind-up routine. And you just can’t continue waking up so early if you’re not getting more sleep on the regular.
Eeeek! What’s happening here?
If being creative really lights you up, then why on earth can’t you make time for it?
Why do you avoid doing what feels so good to you? And why does it feel like self-sabotage?
Let me address the monster in the room.
Contrary to what you believe, being creative is not hard for you.
But your resistance to expressing your creativity is.
It’s the pushing and holding down of your creativity that’s exhausting. It’s the feeling bad about yourself and being mean to yourself that eats away at you.
All that squashing and pushing down turns into an energy-sucking monster called resistance.
We all have crazy mad desires deep down inside of us. We long to fulfill our potential and thrive. We yearn to make a difference. And yet we squash all that. We push it down.
We fear:
• Not knowing how it will all work out
• Not knowing if we can handle the success we dream of
• Failing and being rejected
• Disappointing others
Part 1. The counter-intuitive truth about self-sabotage
• You’re not short on time.
You’ve been investing a lot of time in avoiding and overthinking what you truly want to do, rather than actually diving in and doing it. Your resistance is creating some serious energy leaks for you.
These energy leaks can show up in your life as multitasking, clutter, worrying, caring too much, indecisiveness, and perfectionism.
You’re not short on time. As soon as you figure out your energy leaks, you reclaim all the time you need.
• You’re not short on energy.
You’re already expending tons of energy pushing yourself down and squashing your creativity. By easing up on all the effort it takes to keep yourself down, you free up a buttload of energy.
You’re not short on energy. As soon as you drop your resistance, you get back all the energy you need.
• You’re not short on enthusiasm.
Here’s the thing, you’re never avoiding the work itself. Your resistance shows up in your overthinking. You get caught in a loop of spiraling thoughts about not having enough time, not knowing how to start, not having the right materials, not being in the right space, not feeling inspired, etc.
When you think about the actual work, you feel excited.
You feel excited about using new materials you can’t wait to play with. You feel excited about finishing wherever you left off last time. You feel excited about trying a new technique.
You’re not short on enthusiasm. What’s going on is that you’re avoiding the discomfort of your spiraling thoughts.
• You’re not short on discipline.
Maintaining your resistance takes tons of willpower. What’s happening is that you think you need to push your way through.
But play is more effective than push. Working harder only keeps you stuck. The harder you try, the more resistance you feel.
You’re not short on discipline. What’s happening is that you’ve been trying too hard. You’ve gotta allow for ease and play. The more you play, the more energized you feel to try new things.
• You’re not short on talent.
The truth is that you’re already creative. And you want to get a lot done in the perfect circumstances. You want lots of time, all the right materials, the perfect workspace, etc. And you want what you make to be good.
But making unreasonable and difficult demands on yourself is not sustainable.
You’re not short on talent. You’ve been giving yourself tall orders and telling yourself you’re not artistic enough.
Part 2. Think TINY to thrive
So, I get it. You want to be more disciplined, focused, and consistent with your creative practice — especially with so little time in your day.
But you’ll never find a solution by searching for ways to be more productive.
Nope, the secret isn’t pushing harder. It’s learning to unlock energy, motivation, and momentum through small, doable moments of creative play.
Think TINY. Try making your tasks so tiny that you can finish them in 10-15 minutes. Keeping your tasks tiny helps you stay consistent. And once you begin, everything shifts.
Small steps make your creative practice feel light, fun, and totally doable — even in the margins of your busy day. As you give yourself permission to play, you’ll feel your energy return.
You’ll notice you're less mentally drained, more focused, and surprisingly motivated. That renewed energy becomes fuel — helping you make clearer decisions, spend less time procrastinating, and actually create time by using it more intentionally.
You’ll start to feel the truth in your body:
Play isn’t a luxury, it’s an energy source. And the more you tap into it, the easier it becomes to stay consistent and keep moving forward.
Part 3. Sneaky energy leaks
The way you do energy is the way you do time. So what’s happening is that your resistance is creating some serious energy leaks for you.
These energy leaks are sneaky. They can show up as multitasking, clutter, worrying, caring too much, indecisiveness, and perfectionism. They drain your energy day in and day out and you may not even notice anymore.
Yep. You've got time going down the drain, baby. That’s time you could use for self-care, learning, and nurturing your creativity.
So here’s what’s really going on:
You’re not lacking time, energy, enthusiasm, discipline, or talent.
What you are doing is fighting yourself. And that fight is draining you. It’s not the work that’s exhausting—it’s the avoidance, the overthinking, the pushing, and the perfectionism.
But there’s good news.
You can stop paddling upstream. You can drop the oars. You can choose play over push, curiosity over control, and permission over perfection.
Here’s the truth:
Your creative energy is still there, waiting—not demanding perfection or more time or better tools—just your presence.
Your creativity isn’t the problem. It’s the part of you that’s been trying to shine through all along.
Let it.
Even if it's just for ten quiet, messy, beautiful minutes today. Let it be fun. That’s not a compromise—it’s a spark. And that spark is enough to light up your whole day. Smile.
Now picture this:
All those projects you’ve had piling up for years no longer seem impossible to start.
Imagine you’ve finally figured out a way to work on your favorite projects consistently by fitting tiny creative play breaks into your day. And it’s so much fun to use your art supplies that it makes you feel like a little kid again. Whoopee!
And not only that, but your creative play begins to spill over into all parts of your life. Whoopee!
Trust me when I say that I want nothing more than to see you having fun with your creative side. I also know that life gets in the way and you simply can’t function for long on a leaky battery.
So first things first, let’s take a look at how to get your time back:
CLICK HERE to learn about How To Find More Time To Be Creative: 6 Sneaky Energy Leaks That Steal Your Time